You see a lady working with a big company but still render the service of bed-warming to millionaires and billionaires, and you wonder: ‘What does she want?
You might know ladies with high paying jobs/blooming businesses, but still offer their bodies for sex to different men who are ready to pay; and you might be like: ‘After her huge salary, what does she even want?
Well, sit back as i tell you reasons why many of them does that.
1. Greed: Yes, this is without doubt the major reason. Many of those ladies that offers their bodies for money despite having high paying jobs/business are simply greedy and aren’t contented&grateful with what they have.
2. Love Of Fun: I personally feel not all those ‘high class prostitutes’ are from poor homes. Many ladies loves thrilling fun. They will go with men who will take them to parties, trips abroads, etc. So, money isn’t necessarily the driving-force of such ladies- but their love for fun.
And when they discovered they could make money from randy men while having fun, they capitalise on that.
3. Lack Of Dignity: A lady was playing a ‘play-play fight’ with a guy somewhere. And some of us were like ‘This guy is having fun touching your breasts and others’. But she was like ‘Oh that’s nothing, as far as he isn’t doing the ‘main thing’ (i.e penetration).
Though am a man, but am surprised many women doesn’t know about something called the ‘DIGNITY OF WOMANHOOD’. Real women who know the dignity of womanhood doesn’t allow any kind of man play with their bodies anyhow, for his own sexual pleasure. And that’s exactly what is wrong with these ladies we are talking about: They don’t know their bodies shouldn’t be a pleasurable tool for all types of men; they lack dignity.
4. Urge To Belong: Urge to belong to where? ‘CLIQUE OF BIG GIRLS’ of course. Don’t you see some of those ‘big girls’ around you? Big phones; big cars; big dresses; big everything. And you know what? Many of those ‘unbig girls’ admire them (conciously or not) and want to be like them.
Being a ‘big girl’ requires money. Yes, good money. When many of those working class ladies decided to use their salaries to stay in the clique of ‘big girls’, they might discover it isn’t enough; hence will resort to having another form of income via selling their bodies for money.
5. She Is A ‘What-You-Have Lady: Many ladies feel all men are pleasure freaks- thus decide to create a ‘business’ with it. They feel because they are females, they can always have their way and get what they want from men. Hence many of them have the ‘USE WHAT YOU HAVE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT’ idealogy. They feel, though they have other mean of income, their bodies are ‘assets’ that can always get them what they want.
6. Self-centeredness: These ladies think of themselves only. They don’t care how their actions will affect their loved ones. Some of those ladies are married, but wouldn’t care how their actions affects their husbands. Many of them hooked married men and wouldn’t care what’s happening to his wife at home. Why? The ‘me, myself, and i alone’ syndrome.
7. Security: Money is security; that’s a fact. When you have money (especially in a country like Nigeria) you can do so many things. With the conciousness that a rich man/woman can open doors which a poor man/woman can’t open in Nigeria, many Nigerians want this money at all costs.
Many ladies are aware of this fact, thus, even when they earn good money legitimatly, they want more and more money. And since many of them feel they can’t create another stream of income in a good manner again, they resorted to selling their bodies for money.
8. Bad Influence. Influence is powerful. In the work-force, there are different women with different ways of thinking. Some of them are immoral and indecent. They are the ‘use what you have to get what you want type’. And if you as a lady mingle with such, before you know it, they’ll introduce you to it, and influence you negatively.
9. The ‘It’s Temporary Ladies’: These are single ladies who want to ‘rock their worlds’ while single, but plan repenting when it’s time to marry. Many ladies who earn salaries and still sell their bodies for money are singles who intend ‘changing’ when they are ready for marriage.
10. Add Yours!!!
My advice for ladies is that they should know that their bodies should be a source of pleasure to their married husbands only. They should be contented with what they have, and should avoid bad indecent friends.