Sometimes, when a relationship is over, the person who is losing interest might be hesitant to just request for a clean break. When this happens, he/she hopes that the relationship will either fade away, or the other person would suggest a break-up.
To avoid playing the fool and being with someone who does not want to be with you anymore, watch out for the following signs that might tell you your partner is on his/her way out the door.
1. Less Communication: When someone is getting uninterested in a relationship, he/she becomes less communicative. If she takes hours or days to reply your calls/messages when she would usually take only a few minutes, or if he starts calling you less and less, then it is obvious he/she is spending time on something/someone else.
2. Avoids Friends And Family: Does she suddenly seem reluctant to hang out with your friends or attend family events? If you are looking to break up with someone, then you are also severing ties with others connected to the person, which could mean spending less time around people that matter to your partner.
Does Not Spend Much Time With You: If you normally spend time together every week and you are noticing that the time you are spending together these days are getting fewer and farther between, then your partner just might be avoiding you.
Uninterested in Making Future Plans: Making future plans with someone implies that you see a future with them. When your partner no longer makes concrete plans for the future or avoids conversation that revolves around a shared future, then he/she probably already has one leg out the door.
Picking Fights: Another way a partner might show that they are no longer interested is when they start to pick fights for absolutely no reason. This system is so that, hopefully, one of these random fights could get so big that the person might just leave in anger and never come back.
Reluctant to Touch You: Touching is one very important ways couples show intimacy. When you feel connected to a person, you want to get as close to them as you can.
If you notice your partner keeps to his/herself when they are with you and avoids bodily contact (whether consciously or unconsciously) this is a red flag that something is wrong in your relationship.