6 Signs That Shows Your Partner Is No More Interested In You

Sometimes, when a relationship is over, the person who is losing interest might be hesitant to just request for a clean break. When this happens, he/she hopes that the relationship will either fade away, or the other person would suggest a break-up.


To avoid playing the fool and being with someone who does not want to be with you anymore, watch out for the following signs that might tell you your partner is on his/her way out of your life.

Less Communication: When someone is getting uninterested in a relationship, he/she becomes less communicative. If she takes hours or days to reply your calls/messages when she would usually take only a few minutes, or if he starts calling you less and less, then it is obvious he/she is spending time on something/someone else.

Avoids Friends And Family: Does he/she suddenly seem reluctant to hang out with your friends or attend family events? If you are looking to break up with someone, then you are also severing ties with others connected to the person, which could mean spending less time around people that matter to your partner.

Does Not Spend Much Time With You: If you normally spend time together every week and you are noticing that the time you are spending together these days are getting fewer and farther between, then your partner just might be avoiding you.

Uninterested in Making Future Plans: Making future plans with someone implies that you see a future with them. When your partner no longer makes concrete plans for the future or avoids conversation that revolves around a shared future, then he/she probably already has one leg out of the door.

Picking Fights: Another way a partner might show that they are no longer interested is when they start to pick fights for absolutely no reason. This system is so that, hopefully, one of these random fights could get so big that the person might just leave in anger and never come back.

Reluctant to Touch You: Touching is one very important ways couples show intimacy. When you feel connected to a person, you want to get as close to them as you can. If you notice your partner keeps to his/herself when they are with you and avoids bodily contact (whether consciously or unconsciously) this is a red flag that something is wrong in your relationship.

3 Proven Strategies to Find your Dream Girl in 2016

If you didn’t have much dating luck last year, don’t let a little slump deter you from finding your dream girl in 2016. Because she’s out there—you just need to know how to find her.

Follow these sound strategies from relationship experts to snag your soul mate.

1. Give it three (3) dates

One Match.com survey of more than 5,000 men and women found that 35 percent of people have fallen in love with someone even though, at first, they felt zero spark.

“When we first meet a potential mate, we overweigh the few things we know about them,” says anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D., chief scientific advisor to Match.com and author of Why Him? Why Her?

The more time you spend with a would-be partner, the less you’ll fixate on the little things and the more you’ll see her as a complete person. Provided she’s not a horrible match, go on at least three dates to figure out if you have chemistry, Fisher advises.

2. Don’t Look For Her in a Bar

Every other guy goes to the bar to meet women. But your odds there are terrible!

“Alcohol and good judgment are not good bedmates,” says Paul Hokemeyer, Ph.D., a Manhattan-based marriage therapist. “Alcohol interferes with a person’s ability to think logically and to avoid falling into unproductive patterns, like dating that really hot girl of dubious character.”

So what’s Plan B after the bar? Unfortunately, there’s no great-girl convention. All intelligent, funny, and sexy women have their own unique interests.

Romantic Couples

To find where your perfect match is hiding, you need to think about how—and where—her type would spend her time.

For instance, if you want a religious-minded woman, go to church. Searching for someone who can kick ass and take names on the job? Hit up a networking mixer.

Though it sounds obvious, our experts say many men don’t consider this step.

3. Get Surrounded

Along the same lines, sign up for classes where you know you’ll be outnumbered by gorgeous women. “I used to take a cooking class that was also a meet-up and it was always like 11 women and one guy,” Gagnon says. (Bonus: Women love a man who knows his way around the kitchen.)

Try your hand at a typically female-centric activity like Pilates or pottery—the competition is scarce, and you can play the part of an eager student looking for help.


For Single Ladies: 10 Guys You Must Never Date If You Want To Get Married

Many guys look like the ‘perfect’ husband material till you date them and you realise it isn’t what it is.


For a girl who wants to get married soon, if you meet any of these kind of guys, it’s better not to waste your time with them. It doesn’t mean they are bad people, just that their compatibility level with you will be zero in the end.

Inspired by Your Tango, here are the kind of guys you shouldn’t consider for marriage:

1. The Shady one: Everything about him is suspicious. And since trust is required, it’s never start anything with this guy. Just walk away.

2. The one who compares you to his exes: Usually when people move on, they really move on. This guy isn’t over his ex-girlfriend and will keep making you feel inadequate because there’s a large part of him that still wants her. If you know deep inside you that he would always choose her over you, it’s better to take a long walk.
Unhappy couple.

3. The one who buys you unnecessary gifts: It doesn’t mean if your boyfriend gets stuffs for you then he’s shady. In this instance, his gifts are always a cover up for something, either he’s asking for forgiveness after messing around or the gifts are a replacement for being with you. It’s easy to get carried away but don’t be fooled.

4. The serial monogamist: This guy jumps from one relationship to another like he’s changing clothes. Commitment is only temporary for him and it looks like he’ll never end up you because he doesn’t know it’s like to be in a long-term relationship.

5. The alcoholic: he’s not a ‘social drinker’ though he swears to be one but doesn’t know when to stop the bottles from becoming numerous. He becomes aggressive and nasty when he’s had too much to drink and will turn on you. This kind of guy should be avoided like a plague.

To be continued…

7 Ways To Tell If Your Boyfriend Is Going To Be Rich

Ladies, not every guy is a member of the lucky sperm club. Not every poor guy today is worth investing in. Some are simply hopeless and will never hit it big.

Some are purely millionaires in the making. But to spare you from waking up one morning realizing you’ve invested your time, effort and youth for nothing, here’s the rule of thumb I’ve used to sift out good penny stocks.

*.1. He knows he is good at something… Knowing his worth is usually the first step towards wealth creation. Baby-sitting, baking, gardening or whatever so long as he recognises that the skills he honed are exchangeable for money.

*.2. He is self-disciplined…
He has the ability to concentrate on future financial goals without swaying from everyday tasks that will lead him there. No matter how boring or unpleasant.

*.3. He blames himself, not others…
He thinks it’s always his fault. Either partially or entirely. It might seem a little sadistic but it’s him actually knowing that he has control over his environment, decisions and ultimately his own future.

*.4. He lives below his means…. It doesn’t mean he’s a miser. He chooses to accumulate more wealth rather than to succumb to short-lived pleasures of buying a Rolex or a BMW. Someone in the relationship has to make this sacrifice at the beginning. If not him, who else?

*.5. He is a doer…..
He doesn’t blabber on and on about how he is going to do something great. He just does it. He doesn’t complain about doing stuff. He just does it.

*.6. He is extremely curious….
He takes time and effort to figure out the nuts and bolts of why things work or don’t work. Opportunity sometimes arises when he stumbles upon an unserved niche.

*.7. He is thick skinned…
He has the balls to execute his crazy plans. Whatever they may be. Failure doesn’t concern him. Or should I say he isn’t afraid of being laughed at if he didn’t succeed. He repeats 6 and tries again. Investing in men is largely based on intrinsic value. You’ll win some and you’ll lose some. But when you do win, make sure you win big. So good luck ladies. May the dating market be forever bullish..

Confession Of A Lagos Campus Babe: How I Seduced My Lecturer

In Nigeria’s higher educational institutions, allegations of sexual harassment is rife. Lecturers have been  accused of harassing female students to exchange sex for scores. But no one ever accuses female students of seducing their lecturer. In this piece, Mirabel, a typical Lagos campus girl narrated how she seduced one of her lecturers to Naij Lagos contributor, Chinenye Obidigbo. It’s a shocking but  true story.


Enjoy her narration below:

My name is Mirabel. I happened to have an unavoidable attraction for my lecturer in my second year in the university. It all began one fateful morning when were supposed to have a lecture, FORTRAN.

It happened that our old lecturer, was retiring and a replacement was brought to continue with the course. The outgoing lecturer came into the lecture hall that afternoon with this young, vibrant looking man who introduced himself as Mr. Desmond. He was meant to take over from retiring lecturer.

I was lost in erotic thoughts at the sight of this man that I didn’t even bother to listen to the gibberish introductory message, I was just focused on his masculine physique that stole my heart and whole being that instant. He was fondly addressed ad Mr. Dez by fellow students.

Despite the fact that I was studying a science inclined course, I was never serious with my studies. I hardly attend lectures because I had it at the back of my mind that no matter what happens, the word “Impossible” simply means “I’m possible” in my dictionary so I didn’t bother myself about that.

I am a very easy going person who believes that every goal in life is attainable, it doesn’t matter the paths you took in achieving it. The most important thing is that the set goal was positively achieved. That was my new mission with my young lecturer, Mr. Dez. I am a lover of good thing and highly attracted to cute men, most especially, the young energetic ones.

These characteristics were possessed by Dez and I was bent on having him grace my bosom. Dez was tall (6ft. 7”), dark, he had this physique like those hot black Americans we see in Hollywood movies.

Damn! He was so cute with those well-arranged sets of teeth with slight opening in the middle upper front teeth covered with the most red sexy lips I‘ve ever seen.

His smile made my stop for a second. His eyes were like the blue sky and the shape of his ‘Mandingo’ adorned and well packaged on the pair of jeans pant he wore that day and a shirt that graced his broad shoulders.

He was the sexiest creature I ever laid my eyes on ever since I set foot into the campus. I felt like I had a mission to accomplish and my goal must be met at the end of it all. After the introductory class that day, I could not get Dez out of my head.

He became my imaginary stalker or either ways. I started attending his class and made sure I never miss any period just to behold his sensuous presence. Desmond is a kind of man any responsible girl in her right senses won’t let to pass her by. They were limitations, I know but I cared less. He was 10 years older that I was but hardly looked it because of his sporty appearance.

Secondly and most importantly, he was married with kids, still I damned all the consequences. My fellow course mates noticed my unusual attendance to lecture more especially that of Mr. Desmond’s, other courses, I cared less about them because I knew that definitely I will pass them at any cost (monetary not otherwise).

One day, it was like waiting forever to be noticed by this super sexy creature of my lecturer. I had an assignment that I was yet to complete, so I came in earlier enough to do them to avoid any embarrassment from Mr. Desmond whose class we were having the next period.

It was as if my heart was calling out to him, lo and behold, there he was, alone in the lecture with me. Luck smiled on me that day it was my goal accomplishing day. I greeted him with the sexiest smiles I had and rested my hands on his broad chest because I was already standing so close to him.

He was amused and taking aback by my strange reaction. I comported myself immediately and removed my hands from his chest, walk closer and gently whispered into his ears that I will like to see him after the class in his office.

He asked if I was having difficulty with the course, I affirmed by showing him he undone assignment because honestly I had no ounce of idea of how to get the right answers to the most strange questions I’ve ever seen in my entire life, Gosh!

After what seemed like forever to respond to my request, he told me to see him after the class. The two hours he spent in class were the most boring of its kind; he kept repeating one sentence over and over again. I was lost in deep thoughts while staring at him like suckling looking up to her mother for breast milk.

He noticed I was absent minded and asked me a question; it took the intervention of the girl next to me to bring me back to reality.

At last the class was finally over, I quickly rushed to my room, took a quick bath, applied a very seductive perfume, and wore a see-through short gown cover with big, long jacket and set off to his office with my books. He was almost on his way out when I walked in.

He shouted at me for keeping him waiting and asked why I didn’t follow him after the class. Of course the question was met with silence. I quietly closed the window blind and locked the door as he stood there moping at me as if he’s seeing double. I came back and stood in front of him and he asked again, what was that for?

Before he could complete the question, my jacket was already on the floor, I stood there almost naked. Yes! I had him under my spell. I knew at this point that he cannot resist me because all of a sudden his voice disappeared. I moved closer and kissed him passionately, My Goodness! his lips tasted like honey.

At this point, he could not hold it any longer, he grabbed my two sumptuous oranges that was pointing at him like arrows waiting to be released on a prey. He squeezed it so hard that I noticed the kind of effect I had on him. In no time, we got down to real business, just exactly as I imagined it.

He was smooth, gentle on the bare floor and the times we spent was so magical that at that spot, I realized that I was in love with my lecturer. Nothing else mattered tome then but to enjoy the sizzling moments with him.

An hour later, we were both dressed up and I was almost at the door when he suddenly found his voice and asked what that was all about, I took my time to narrate the story from the first day he entered into the lecture hall. Apparently he had the same feeling but was trying to thread with caution.

The affair continued secretly till I graduated. It’s been three years since I left the university, got a job, got engaged and getting ready to get married to my supposedly husband. I never regretted my decision to get what I wanted from my lecturer.

I was only following my heart but know the difference between love and obsession. It was much later I realized that I wasn’t really in love with my lecturer rather I was obsessed with him. You might contribute years of your life into someone else’s, only to realize at long last that it was all just an infatuation.

10 Things Broke Guys Normally Use To Entertain Female Visitors

I think I’m in the best position to come up with this kind of write-up. This is because I belong we know how to manoeuvre our way out when broke

NOTE: That a guy offers any of the aforementioned items does not necessarily mean it’s a yardstick for being broke, but most often than not, it’s one of those things we are talking about cheesy. This write-up contains exaggerations to a large extent cool

*Clear throat*

I shall discuss things broke guys normally use to entertain female visitors cheesy

10 Things Broke Guys Use To Entertain Female Visitor

1. Gala and Soft drink

Undoubtedly, gala and soft drink are what a proportion of broke guys normally use to entertain their female visitors

2. Egg-roll and Pure Water.

Some of them will take their female visitor to an eatery and will go to the counter themselves and order for her, without even asking her what she would like to take or not. These kinds of dudes are most likely to order snacks such as egg-roll, meat pie, and soft drinks

3. Concotion Rice

This reminds me of a time a lady visited me in school. Make I no lie, na N50 remain for my hand that day after buying a bottle of kerosene used to cook concotion rice. I inquired what I should offer her and said she had no appetite. I smiled to God for answering my prayers. After about three hours, she said I should get her shawama and I began to sweat profusely. I couldn’t but serve her my concotion rice

4. Viju Milk and Cabin Biscuit

As funny as it sounds, some use it

5. Garri

As funny as it sounds, I’m guilty of this. I have once offered garri to my female visitor. Make una no blame me ooooo, na my pocket empty that day ooooo cool

6. Malt

Some will give her only malt without adding anything to it. They already assume she will not eat even if they offer her food, so dem no go kuku ask

7. Indomie and Egg

Ronald4lif can bear me witness that he used to do this before his life changed for good

8. They offer Nothing

For the broke ones who are very smart, will resort to entertain her by acting like clowns. However, they will start acting like Papa Ajasco so that the lady will laugh till she leaves

9. They Borrow Generator

For those who have generation, they will borrow money to buy petrol, and for those who don’t have, they will borrow their friend’s generator. They will entertain her with movies

10 Ladies, feel free to add the last one cool

Dating Tips: 10 Things Only Guys With Smart Girlfriends Will Understand

Truth be told, dating a smart girl has lots of advantages if you aren’t intimidated by them at first. You feel like someone has got your back which means you are completely covered. All you have to do is prepare towards the future.

According to Life Hack, here are things you experience with a girlfriend who is smart:


1. Confidence is her middle name: She can fall back on her intelligence and isn’t scared to tell the world what she feels about a certain issue. She can always fight for and with her man when the situation calls for it.

2. She wants to be the best: She doesn’t settle for average, never idle, always heading for the peak and knows how to pick herself up when she fails.

3. You can depend on her: She sticks to her word, so when she assures you of something, you have her undivided attention.

4. She treats her money right: She isnt crazy about money and looks for resourceful ways and tools to utilize her finances.

5. She’s not unstable: In relationships, she works to get the best out of it. The words Yes and No are carefully used by her when dealing with people and life issues.

6. She’s very resourceful: She uses her knowledge to get what she wants. Very proactive and uses her resources to improve herself and everyone else around her.

7. She doesn’t develop cold feet towards kids or the elderly: Doesn’t matter which age groups she comes across, the smart girl knows how to make them feel comfortable and relate without developing cold feet.

8. She knows what she’s worth: A smart girl respects herself and everyone she comes into contact with. She dresses well and is fluent in her communication skills. There’s just something about her that commands respect.

9. Her opinions are totally hers: She’s really opinionated on every subject and know when to voice them out.

10. She’s good at crisis management: She’s one of the people who gets going when the going gets tough. She builds on her strengths, minimizes her weaknesses to get out of the toughest situations.

Dear Ladies… These Are 4 Ways To Make Men Find You Irresistible

Often times we see ladies who people love to label as ‘man-magnets’. These women are constantly chased and asked on numerous dates by men while some women find it hard to keep one man after a date.

These ‘man-magnets’ are quite attractive but their confidence and self-esteem makes them more beautiful than ever to men.

Wondering the secret behind their charm? It’s accepting all men for who they are, loving them on your terms makes them more attracted to you.

Inspired by YourTango, here are 4 ways to make men more attracted to you:

1. Keeping an open mind about the men you go on dates with. You don’t have to treat a guy shabbily because he has little money or doesn’t take you to the most expensive restaurant to eat. Appreciate his honesty and intelligence, find his uniqueness. It doesn’t mean you’ll marry or date him, just make him feel good.

2. Desist from trying to win a man’s approval or acceptance. Don’t panic about the way you look, or would speak. Just focus on enjoying yourself on your date.

3. Always look for ways to accept, value and appreciate men. Make an effort to look for the good qualities of the men you meet. Doesn’t mean you’ll go out on dates with them all. It may just be the man who opens the door for you at your workplace. Every man has a value.

4. Discard your one-sided expectations. When you go on a date, don’t carry your ‘men’ checklist with you. Stop hoping for a romantic connection after a first date, you’ll get disappointed later. Rather lookout for your dates good qualities, be friends first before proceeding to the next level. That friendship may do more for you than a romantic relationship ever would.

10 Sure Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating

What happens when you discover your girlfriend isn’t just yours alone?


This is a situation that makes men boil with rage especially if the men have played their own part without cheating. There could be a wide range of reasons why a lady would cheat on her man but as serious as the reasons could be, it’s most times devastating to discover that one’s partner hasn’t been entirely truthful. In serious relationships, the men go into different stages of shock, unbelief and eventually anger; same way the women react after being cheated on.

Below are signs your girlfriend could exhibit when she’s cheating.

Unaccounted movements

When your girlfriend stops sharing information about her movement all of a sudden then something could be wrong. When her location isn’t known or she isn’t found where she ought to be found, she could have a skeleton in her wardrobe. When she suddenly becomes a fickle and she springs up various excuses as to her whereabouts, she could be cheating.

Lesser Time Together

You can’t miss this sign. When a woman who used to be crazy about you finds a reason to stay away from you, this could only point to one thing; she may be sending you an indirect message of a pending break up or she’s cheating. if a woman who used to be clingy and all over you finds it difficult to hang out with you then she’s created time for something or someone else.

Conscious Of Her Looks

When your girlfriend’s mode of dressing changes without you implementing this change, it would be better to watch her closely. When she suddenly becomes conscious of her looks and worry about something being out of place in her appearance, she may be trying hard to impress someone else. When she takes extra time dressing up and is always eager to step out alone, it’s likely she’s having an affair.

Booming Social Life

A lady who isn’t a socialite finds interest in going out all of a sudden; she would catch someone’s attention and keep going out to maintain the friendship. She’s eager to make new friends; her adventures naturally make her lose focus in her relationship as she starts to explore.

Conscious Of Her Phone

Handling your girlfriend’s phone to her when it rings becomes a crime. She rushes to the phone before you could reach out for it. She takes the phone everywhere with her even in the house. When she can’t keep her hands off her phone and she doesn’t trust you enough to hold it, or walks into the room every time to receive calls, she is definitely cheating.

Dwindled communication

When your woman starts to withdraw from you, it is made noticeable through communication. Her enthusiasm is low when it comes to sharing the event of the day with you. She explains it all using words as few as possible. She becomes uninterested in your affairs.

Muddled Sex Routine

When your girlfriend constantly turns you down when it comes to sex, something could be wrong. Getting the normal sexual reaction from her is almost impossible. When all forms of intimacy are reduced and she suddenly becomes more comfortable staying out of your arms, she may be getting the action somewhere else.

Not Excited About Future Plans

When your girlfriend doesn’t share dreams of settling down with you, she might as well have the dreams with someone else in the picture. She would practically avoid anything and everything that moves in that direction. She could be cheating on you already or be making moves to replace you.

Quick To Throw Tantrums

A cheating girlfriend is always trying to be smart around you. Every time she feels she may get suspected, she starts to throw tantrums and cover everything up by being emotional. She tries to change the subject in order to shift focus.


When a girlfriend who has shown a total lack of interest in her boyfriend gets distracted easily, she may be thinking about someone else. She could daydream all day; smiling lost in thoughts until she’s being jolted back to reality.

Scientists Discover The Perfect Penis Size Women Prefer

A study recently conducted by academic researchers probably revealed the perfect penis size women all around the world prefer.

The scientists used 3D-printed 100 plastic erect penis models and asked 75 female participants to choose two penises – one they would prefer for lasting relationships and another for one night stands. And the results were rather surprising!


16cm long with a 12,2cm circumference is the perfect size for a longterm partner!

On average, participants considered 16cm long with a 12,2cm circumference to be the perfect size for a longterm partner. A one night stand, on the other hand, was considered ideal at 16,3cm long, with a 12,7cm circumference.

Dr. Nicole Prause, sexual psychophysiologist and the leading researcher of the study conducted by the team of University of California Los Angeles and University of New Mexico scientists commented on the experiment saying: “Women may prefer different sizes for different reasons at different times, so chances are very good any guy is someone’s ideal for the relationship type they are seeking.”